Stop contact with your ex, work on making yourself feel better, go on a few dates and try to accept the fact that you two broke up. And perhaps you have been obsessed about your ex for so long that you have mistaken this obsession for love.
Here are a few examples of when you shouldn’t get back with your ex after a year.
If he has some kind of physical or mental debilitation that prevents him from dating, he will not pursue.
If he is too overwhelmed with responsibilities (work, family, kids, exes, baby moms), he will not pursue. You were no challenge and are not worthy in his eyes. OR You will never know and never find out, therefore, SHOULD NEVER CARE.
You realized that the reason you two broke up wasn’t really a big deal and you could have actually worked through it.
Or perhaps something has changed in the past year that makes you feel like the relationship could work. If you fall in this category (or something as reasonable as these), then you should try to get back together. And it is quite possible that your ex has moved on by now.
A lot has probably changed in that year and you need to analyze the situation with your ex before making a move.
A lot has changed in this one year, and before we talk about what you should do, let’s take a look at what you have.
If a man is not interested in you ENOUGH, he will not pursue.
You don’t want them to think you are still thinking about the breakup or the past relationship.
A simple and convenient way to contact them will be via text messages. You need to start off with a message that shows that you haven’t forgotten them, but you have moved an.
OR He knows you want him and thus doesn’t have to do anything to get your attention, win your heart, or obtain your company.
If you and your ex have been apart for over a year, then you need a completely different strategy to get your ex back.