So really, since it’s inevitable, the real concern is finding the “something more” that goes beyond just the sex. Listen, when you inspire a man to see you as a confident, fulfilled woman with plenty to offer other than physical pleasure, he doesn’t treat you like an option. When you have the mentality that you have one bargaining chip (sex) and that you should hold out because it will magically generate interest, you’re viewing sex as your one and only asset.If a guy isn’t all that into you, but knows you’ll give it up on date #3, he’ll stick around long enough to get some booty then leave.While it can seem like men only want physical pleasure, what most really crave is a woman who reaches them on a deep and profound level.Going back to the whole issue of giving a guy space.
My friend Maria is a typical convert to online dating.
a woman that has that certain “extra something” that makes you rare and unlike the rest.
People are entranced and captivated by someone who has an air of excitement, adventure and pleasure to them.
However, the part where he have sex and he withdraws happened.
I’ve been totally cool about it, giving him all the space in the world, no calls, texts, emails.